Christmas In Heaven (Christmas Classic)

27 Dec

December 27, 2012

This has never before been reposted. This is a true story whose impact that the passage of time has not blunted at all.

December 29, 2011

I need to tell you upfront that this is not about religion. While the following post will touch on religion it is not a central part of the story. It is just sort of there. So before you go in, if you are the type to be easily offended, turn off that part of your brain.

This is, at the core, a sad story. It was told to me secondhand by frequent contributor and distinguished scholar Allan Keyes but it is one that has happened to millions of people, possibly even those you know. As I said, it is a sad story.

Mr. Keyes was sitting in a restaurant when he overheard a conversation between two people at the next table. They were talking about a friend of theirs who had tragically lost her baby. A horror at any time, the woman was taking it even harder due to the looming holiday season. The couple at the table had, among other things, bought her a card to console her. It was a “Baby’s First Christmas in Heaven” card. They thought it would cheer her up so much that the woman would, and I quote, “frame it and put it on her wall.”

While on the surface a card like that may seem a bit ghoulish, when written well it can bring some measure of consolation to the person getting it. Here is a sample found online of what I think is a good verse:

I see the countless Christmas Trees around the world below,
with tiny lights, like heaven’s stars, reflecting on the snow.
The sight is so spectacular, please wipe away that tear,
for I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.

A poem like that could give a measure of comfort to a grieving parent.

But it has to be done right.

I found this bit of poetry online.

~Christmas In Heaven~

In Loving Memory of all who are spending their first Christmas in Heaven

I’ve had my first Christmas in Heaven;
A glorious, wonderful day!
I stood with the saints of the ages.
Who found Christ the Truth and the Way.

We sang the glad songs of redemption,
How Jesus to Bethlehem came,
And how they called His name Jesus,
That all might be saved through His name.

Oh darling, I wish you had been here;
No Christmas on earth could compare
With all the rapture and glory
We witnessed in Heaven so fair.

You know how I always loved Christmas;
It seemed such a wonderful day,
With all of my loved ones around me,
The children so happy at play.

Yes, now I see why I loved it;
And, oh, what a joy it will be
When you and my loved ones are with me,
To share in the glories I see.

So dear ones on earth, here’s my greeting;
Look up “till the Day Star appears,
And oh, what a Christmas awaits us,
Beyond all our partings and tears!

~written by A.S. Reitz 

Something in those lines caught my eye. Did it catch yours?
Read these lines again.

Oh darling, I wish you had been here


And, oh, what a joy it will be
When you and my loved ones are with me

In other words, “I wish you were with me up here in Heaven. Things will be so great when you get here.”

Catch it yet?

The narrator of the poem is saying “I wish you were dead too. I can’t wait for you to die.”

It continues.

And oh, what a Christmas awaits us,
Beyond all our partings and tears!

Wow, he makes Christmas in heaven sound so good that maybe I should jump in front of a truck and get there right now! Maybe I’m nuts, but if you reread the poem’s last two verses, isn’t the narrator implying that the loved ones should hurry up and die already? That is a dangerous message to send a grieving parent.

I fail to see any comfort in that poem.

Merry Christmas! Now Drop Dead! Isn’t that what the season is all about?

9 Responses to “Christmas In Heaven (Christmas Classic)”

  1. T E Stazyk December 27, 2012 at 12:06 am #

    I think this poem should be read by Hulk Hogan for maximum impact.


    • bmj2k December 27, 2012 at 12:24 am #

      Now you’ve done it.


      • T E Stazyk December 27, 2012 at 5:48 am #

        HOW did you even know that existed??


        • bmj2k December 27, 2012 at 5:53 am #

          It is one of those things that once you see it you can’t ever forget it.


  2. zathra December 27, 2012 at 2:24 am #

    Poems like that = No real purpose except to generate maudlin, saccharine – sweet sentimentality & forced emotion.


    • T E Stazyk December 27, 2012 at 5:49 am #

      And make parents with live kids feel guilty that the earthbound Xmas they give their kids is so lame compared to the one the dead kids get?


      • zathra December 27, 2012 at 5:56 am #

        How can video games & action figures compete with hearing angelic hosts & seeing JC himself ? Not MUCH competition, Mr. Stazyk….. !!


        • T E Stazyk December 27, 2012 at 1:55 pm #

          LOL, indeed. If I didn’t think lightning would strike me down, I would love to do an earthly rebuttal to the Reitz poem that amplifies your observation!


  3. Saraah December 27, 2012 at 2:30 am #

    I think your being a bad ……. Once again :/ lmao it did crack me up though snort


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